What would Jesus do? Denna-nenna-nent-nent-denna-nenna-nenna-nenna-Denna-nenna-nent-nent-denna-nenna-nenna-nenna Ma-Ma-Ma-My Sharona!. Yes Linda I agree. Do you expect that guys would find equally as desirable and attractive as a life partner the woman who has slept with 100 men, as the woman who has been with 8? You can probably answer that. I dont think its for me to judge anyone. Well I ask you one thing WHO GIVES UP THE HOLE. Hallelujah! Finally one day it comes out, and the number is higher than you thought or like. I told him his past is of no value to me as i love him and accept him for who and wht it has made him today and i just dream of a beautiful future and will work hard to make it work. Women, on the other hand, are the gatekeeper to their bodies, because of the risk in any sexual encounter. This is life. Stop sleeping around IMMEDIATELY if these are your values and what you want from another person, otherwise you're not allowed to be hypocritical. So I guess what I want to say is yes, you do have the right to sleep with anyone as long as youre safe, and I would never call you a slut or judge you etc.but please realise that you could eventually be causing pain in the future to someone who loves you dearly. We enjoy a lot playing games and remembering her sexual past. A) Two long-term sex partners, had sex a total of 1000 times. No problem. People are different and can change! Animals in nature **** and get the hell on and have never had a problem I dont know why humans try to put themselves so high on the food chain of nature. I can tell you first hand from experience that the man and woman that waits has a love affair that lasts a life time. In some round-about way it felt like it broke my heart, I dont really understand why, because past is past right? Ive been through a lot growing up such as rape, molestation, and being beat on (molestation and rape are 2 different things). So I completely understand where you are coming from and again I think it is a very good arguement. I told her not to be judgmental. If a woman only shares her body with those she loves then it means more to be with her. Thats a load of crap! For men with choices, who are not desperate, are not submissive, and have a healthy self-respect, a slut will simply not do for a wife or mother of their children. Have you heard of Google? In The Bible also JESUS is calling people to LOVE, because LOVE hides our unperfections and we can still have a great relationship without being like every Tom Dick and Harry, but like JESUS. That doesnt define who you will be.. However, you chose to explain a womans promiscuity with abuse, mental issues, and low self-esteem. I encourage you remain faithful as long as your in any relationship. Sex is suppose to be something special between two people not the neighborhood. many people feel and learn otherwise. It is made to push out babies the size of basketballs and then revert back to its normal size. Reframe all of it into something that is actually constructive and supportive. While you are Dating or trying to marry a woman who have lived life and around 35+ age and then you realized you are just a number and may be not. Its not about allowing women to act similar to men, but simply to not judge women who may have had a promiscuous past. If she isnt what you need her to be currently, then of course keep it moving. Being promiscuous is not always a conscious decision. Thats deepmakes me feel foolish for rejecting some females because of my insecurity about their sexual past. It doesnt make good sense. And women can go a long way in updating the image of women in society. One wished the best for me. to be selective in whom they chose for a mate. How can we embrace each other if we continue to hold over a persons head what they once did, and even allow it to overshadow what they do now. 9. There is not much left. Those who feel the need to take this approach typically have some deeper issues they are not properly addressing. Although hes been with girls that are tighter than I, he comes quicker, harder, and more intensely and immensely because of his emotional towards me. It has been made apart of this life, but not apart of eternal life..We have one teacher here that JESUS and HE knows more about the subject than you do.In The Book of Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers GOD will judge. We know how to say nothat is intended for the knuckle-dragging Neanderthals out there who have a standard. It taints your bloodline. Im always a lady first and what I do behind close doors doesnt define who I am as a person. If your just hitting it no big deal. Some women can have a very low number and be as emotionally damages (if not more) then other women with a much higher number. If a woman is saying all the right things about her values and views on sexuality, intimacy, etc. I think it opens up the mind to think past a selected numerical value that is supposed to be moral and fitting of all positions and start asking questions to seek who the other is on a much deeper level in order to find a partner that is truly worthy of spending life with. Only how he chooses to receive that number will things now change. Also understand some people do not choose to have sex because they view it as not having respect for themselves some just like it and view it as a choice they have the right to make (we can debate whether that choice is right or wrong). This is still me Pregnancy. So that we, too, can be raised with you on the last day! Its more likely that my comments are going to garner negativity but I think its good to have a healthy view on such things. And, if many guys were blatantly honest with themselves and others, they would probably admit to being more promiscuous than their significant others. However, all else being equal, women with more sexual partners are more likely to undergo a failed marriage. You think people are using condoms at a high ratenope. On the other hand. I mean you right we shouldnt judge by tha way Im a lady but come on get real please no matter wat you say a woman first of all sleeping with over 20+ men shouldnt expect to be in a healthy good relationship with a man who hasnt slept around like she does this article is ridiculous for real cause you didnt mention that a woman should be a woman and have respect for her body and self-respect as a woman period. Twitter. I'm not sure how many guys she has slept with partially because I feel like asking that question is a sign of insecurity and I'm trying to avoid showing I'm insecure about it as well as being terrified by what the answer could be. I completely understand your position on having a right to judge. All that energy goes to personal projects or commuter games. Yeah I had to read the article again lol the first time I read it, I guess it came of as promoting promiscuity. Lets say it was you in their spot. Reply 122. What you do with your body matters. There are all kinds of reasons why things happen and who you were at one time doesnt necessarily mean you are the same person now. Its about having standards that say, as a man, if Im going to marry and commit my life to someone, its going to be someone with the self-respect and characterto have not been a whore. FloralHybrid. These are the things that are going to be If you are afraid to admit how many men you have been with then its obvious you are ashamed of it. Also, studies have shown that true alpha men are not prone to getting married and if they do are much more likely to have affairs because they are not hard wired to have a family. The choices you make in life matter and have consequences. Hallelujah!!! Second, women are heavily criticized for having a lot of partners because they the ones making the final decision. Shadow Hunter-December 12, 2022. There is nothing any of us can do to change the past, but we can choose to make our present and future so much better. I dont feel, I KNOW that there is a double standard at play. so should that man walk away from her now just based off of him finding out a specific number despite the fact that how she is today makes him a happy man. I am not against a woman having sex, I just think that it should be If you refuse to give a woman a chance because of her past, you might be missing out on a really good woman. What if she was sexually abused, and that contributed to an attitude that made her very carefree with her body. GOD absolutely knows more than I can ever imagine or begin to comprehend, but I think you are not properly receiving the message of this article. Whores will always be Whores no matter how you look at it. If I was looking for a Woman, I DO care about her past, and she should care about mines. I can only hope altamera74 read your reply. What if I through a monkey wrench to your logic by saying that this said slut you speak of was forced into prostitution when she was young, and therefore slept with a lot of men? I hit the cutoff line at 5 MAX. Cant turn a hoe into a housewife. I dont think they should, but they will and that man will never know. Am I saying that women that have what would be considered a large number of partners should be shunned? Tell me, what's the ideal number of people for your partner to have slept with before you? To people who have had sex with too many people: It is One should not strive to be perfect. He look at them both. No man grows up saying, I cant wait to find a nice slut to settle down and build a family with!!. I appreciated the honesty and had no problem with it. Who she was it not always who she is now. Also women (and some men) get bored quickly these days. We're sinning again by lying! Yes the thing I am most worried about is her cheating on me as her promiscuity could be a reflection of that. Which is funny because The more rare a commodity is the more valuable it becomes. And our son, how would he view women? Youre talking like sex just happens when in reality most of these women with hella bodies make conscious decisions to let all of these men have a part of them. Women want a guy who wants a woman to love and respect herself to value a A man does not want to have to compete with previous Mr. Big. Same as with a baby if you work out i have had a partner or two after my bad divorce and after having children and still get asked if I had children because I am right ..I personally think it depends on how the person is made idk..what do I know though .. Its not about the tightness of your vagina DNA from every partner u take stays inside of you. amenities; whether it was in the far past or recent past. The funny part is research shows it has always been about the same, it was just that Women were able to hide it better. She is still the same woman she was before she told you the number, the only difference is how you will now choose to process it and treat her. People are simply not willing to marry unless they are certain that the person they are marrying is compatible.. Im female, but Im not emotional, insecure or needy. If you say you do, then answer this: half the women you are sleeping with *are* sleeping around, and guess what? I really question the validity of this statement as the divorce rate in blue states (where women marry later, on average) is lower than in red states where the women are more religious and marry earlier. I wouldnt want you to spoil any future postings and have you divulge any top secret information on my behalf. Sorry but it is a cutoff and a major factor in a potential mate. If her vagina still makes you come who cares how loose or tight it is. Its only because it does matter to us that we may not want Not just with them, but with you. Let her know your goal is to simply be better, and to have peace within yourself about this issue. I've bumped into the men who've used her and they all have told friends that they were embarassed to sleep with her and treated her as joke. I dont ever wonder what I missed out on, I know the answer is not much! I started at 18, averaged 2.78 a year. Men spread seed and women try to attract the best seed they can find. The biggest problem I have with marrying who has had past sexual relationships, I waited for her, but she didnt wait for me. Men cannot be shamed or lectured into accepting women or marriage if the dont want to. I would still probably see a similar reaction to my post on both of those subreddits so I have no interest in reading more on that perspective which is why I'm here hoping for more varied discussion. At least that is how I understand it and I agree. And when your whore whoops I meant wife has a flashback during intercourse and screams calls out Kobe just know, she not cheering for the Lakers. I dont think that the amount of partners anyone has been with in the past should be completely reflective of who they are as a person. 3 of the men I was seeing wanted to marry me, but they are more jealous. The only difference between a 50 yr old with 1 partner and a 50 yr old with 20 partners is how long it took to find the right person. I disagree. Also in your other comment you gave the example of the rapist and that is a great way to make your point, but lets flip this. And some people can change quickly and some more slowly! I do not agree that the more partners she has had the more likely the marriage will fail. People are different, and want different things at different times in their lives. I may not be properly explaining this but I hope you get what I am trying to say. Dude, you better check yourself before you mess yourself! 1. 8. Location: Melbourne, Australia. You will get married to Joe. Because most men are not comfortable, this is why many women lie about it. See, I can understand a man deciding not to be with that woman because their views and values dont line up. Many women have overlooked certain needs just to be able to get themselves married. Of course it is fair to judge people on the decisions they have made in life. Or why jobs do background checks or the existence of credit scores. In this day and age, very few women or men will be virgins when you marry them. So in applying it to what you just said. downward but thats not a bad thing. 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